May It Good Or Bad

So they say, when a girl knows how to boil soup, it will melt a guy's heart and he will fall head over heals.
So they say, when a girl cook, her guy won't runaway
So they say..

I wonder if its true.

But if it's true, why do married men have affairs?

People get married for a reason right,to be with someone they love for the rest of their life.
So why divorce happened? Why affairs begin? Why does marriage falls apart?
Is it because of lust that no men can resist? Or is it because of third party that doesn't understand the meaning of married men?

Sometimes things just happen for a reason may it good or bad.